For years, Jessica Lahey has been one of our favorite parenting columnists and authors. So we were honored she joined us to offer her wise advice on talking with our kids about drug use, abuse, and addiction, all of which you can find in her essential new book, The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence.
What we didn’t know until recently, is that the subject is deeply personal to Jessica; she wrote and researched her book as a recovering alcoholic herself, raising children she knows will be more susceptible to addiction.
Her own story no doubt accounts for how compassionate, non-judgmental, and thoughtfully supportive she is toward other parents.
There’s a lot to learn here, but one of the most important: this is not a topic you address for the first time when your kids are in high school. She reminds us that, as with all tough parenting talks, it’s so important to start early. As early as…preschool.
But don’t worry, Jessica explains how and why. Plus plenty of advice for those of us who already do have tweens and teens.
I hope you listen to this terrific discussion on Apple Podcasts right now (any other favorite podcasting app works too), or click right here to listen — and stick around for three cool new Cool Picks of the Week. Be sure to subscribe to Spawned on Podcasts too, so you never miss an episode.
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Find Jessica Lahey’s The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence from Amazon, Indiebound, or your own local indie bookstore. However Jessica is also offering signed copies if you order from one of her own local faves, The Vermont Book Shop.
Learn more about Jessica on her website, JessicaLahey.com
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